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The Ties That Bond

Updated: Aug 31

Vivian, "I Love you, Mum."

 Mum, "Oh, you do; do you?"

 "Yes, and I love your new baby here too."

 Vivian said, patting his gentle soft, hand on Meg’s swollen tummy.

 Vivian, "This new baby will love you just as much as I do; you know, and as much as Harry, Bob, Bill and Dad."

 Vivian, "We all love you, Mum."

 Mum, "I love all of you too."

 Vivian, "So, if I was ever to go away don’t be sad Mum; you will have this new baby that loves you as much as I do."

 Vivian, "You can love this baby as you love me."

 Vivian, "And that will be nice."

 Mum, "I think you need to go out and play little man, I have things to do."

 Vivian, "OK."


It was only 3 days before he passed away, that young Vivian at the age of eight years sat there on Meg's lap; and had this conversation with his mother.

Meg would go back to this moment many times in her life, remembering, the moment, the words, the smells, the sound of his voice; keeping his touch alive.

On the 23rd of July 1945, her little man was carried home in the arms of his older brother Bill from the beach where they played that day.

If Meg could turn back time, as I know she so much wished. She would go back to hold her son Vivian again to hear his sweet- sweet voice, his squeals of play with his brothers.

Meg had 3 more children after Vivian’s passing.

From the time of Vivian’s passing, till the time of her passing in 2006, there was barely a day gone by that Meg didn’t spare a moment of remembrance of the time her baby said goodbye.

Here we have the beginnings of a story that binds a family to this day. 



Meg and four boys.

Vivian, with his innocent and loving heart, expressed his affection towards his mother, Meg, in a tender moment that would forever be etched in her memory. As he spoke those heartfelt words, the room was filled with warmth and love, creating a precious bond between mother and child. Meg, touched by Vivian's words, felt a deep sense of gratitude for the love that surrounded her.

With each word spoken, Vivian's love for his family shone brightly, encompassing everyone in his pure and genuine affection. His mention of the new baby on the way brought a sense of continuity and hope, reassuring Meg that love would always be present within their family.

As Vivian playfully interacted with his mother, little did they know that their time together was limited. The bittersweet memory of their conversation would become a cherished treasure for Meg, a source of strength and comfort in the years to come.

Despite the inevitable loss of Vivian, Meg found solace in the love of her other children. Each new life brought a mix of joy and sorrow, as they carried on with Vivian's memory close to their hearts.

Through the years, Meg held onto the memories of that fateful day, finding solace in the love shared and the lessons learned. The passing of time did not diminish the impact of Vivian's presence in their lives; instead, it served as a reminder of the enduring power of love and family bonds.

As Meg reflected on her journey, she found strength in the legacy of love left behind by Vivian. His brief but profound existence had woven a tapestry of love that continued to bind the family together, transcending time and space.

The story of Vivian's love and loss became a cornerstone of their family narrative, a testament to the resilience of the human spirit in the face of adversity. Through the generations, his memory lived on, a beacon of light guiding them through life's challenges and triumphs.

And so, the echoes of Vivian's love reverberated through the years, a gentle reminder of the enduring power of love, family, and the unbreakable bonds that tie us together.

Reflecting on the past, Meg found peace in the knowledge that Vivian's love would forever live on in their hearts, a timeless reminder of the beauty and fragility of life.

As the years passed, the family continued to honour Vivian's memory, keeping alive the story that began with a simple declaration of love on a fateful day so many years ago.


Copyright © Noel Bond. Researched and written by Noel Bond, No written part of this Blog may be reproduced in any form, by any electronic or mechanical means, including information storage and retrieval systems, without written permission from the author.

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